i feel like that everyday i wake up and look at my husband and say what did I do ? I h ave no kids so I just decided this year to just have me time .. because at the first 4 yrs of marriage i was always dropping what i wanted to do and he just enjoying his life and career..So i just started in the last 3 yrs its time for me , I am working at a Law firm .. by the end of this month i will be graduating from the Police Academy .. Sometimes we want the fantasy only to look back at the years and wonder what happened and that what happened to me an i think that happens to a lot of married ppl. When you single you have time but you don't use it wisely and etc. Thank GOD we get second ,third and fourth chances to make it right and make it better
That's what I'm afraid to happen in my life too. :(
Maybe you just have to do what you really wanted to do in your life, because when you do what you love, you can never get bored, right? And trust God about how will it all happen.
Life is what you make it.
We are all limited by our responsibilities and the realities of cash or lack of it.
It is up to you to decide what exactly is "meaningful" ,whatever that means, to you and do it.
Your wife may be feeling the same way.
Tell her your dreams and you may work something out together.