I would like to answer you question but can't as it reads like and anagram. Could you provide a little more detail please. Are you using stigmatised as being shunned?
I have a lot of friends and acquaintances that constantly talk about improving themselves or recreating themselves and, yes, it does get annoying. Most of these people are extremely critical of others and think that they are justified in being so solely because they are "attempting" to change. Shouldn't they wait until their personal transformation is actually successful before they ridicule others? If that is what you mean by stigmatization of personal change then I would have to agree with you.