Question

Should a mother regret having her daughter?

Should a mother regret having her daughter? When she was six years old her daddy took her back to his native country Russia like chattel (personal property) and the mother thinks that she will never see her daughter again. The mother knows that her daughter thinks she has the best daddy in the whole world and would be very happy living with her daddy he would take good care of her. This is what happens if you have a child custody dispute with a foreign national. What the father did is a crime under US law, but legal under Russian law. There was a nasty child custody battle going on between both parents, which resulted in the father taking her back to Russia.

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I am not sure regret is the right word, but I do understand what you are saying. Yes, I think if that were my situation, that would cross my mind. It were better for me to have never had her than for her father to take her away from me to his own country and I never see her again. There is a movie about that... Sally Fields is in it. It's a great movie.

I do not know if this is you or a friend but I wish you the best of luck and hope that who ever it is gets their daughter back. I cannot imagine the pain and anguish they are experiencing!

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Well, it's definitely a regrettable situation. And you think sometimes you wish you never had the kid. But you don't really. I got a girl pregnant. She didn't love me but agreed to marry me anyway. We went 16 years and then she had an affair and divorced me. The pain was beyond any I ever thought possible. It was almost unbearable. There were times I said to myself, "I wish I never met her." But I don't really mean that because I would wish my beloved son out of existence.

At the very least, your friend can take some comfort that she brought a beautiful and wonderful person into the world and gave her the chance to have a good life.

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OF COURSE YOU REGRET IT .. YOU WOULD IF YOU LIVED IN ALL OF OHIO OH GOD this is unbearable....

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