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PLEASE ANSWER THIS! I NEED ADVICE ASAP!?

My girlfriend and I were dating for 1 year and 7 months. At the 1 year and 6 month mark, she dumped me. Then the day after she dumped me, she dated one of my friends! they made out and everything. Of course at first I was heart-broken. I couldn't sleep or eat. And I tried suicide but failed because my mom stopped me. I was so depressed. Then 2 weeks passed by and I was getting better. I started going out and forgetting her. But one day I was at a restaurant with my family. My family was there for me the entire time. My mom and sister comforted me whenever I would give up and cry. But that day, I got a text message. It was from her. She said that she missed me and wanted me back. I was so shocked but happy that I took her back. We were together again and getting along just fine. But now, on this date 6/29/10 she dumped me again. She said she wasn't happy and only got back with me because she was bored. I treated her nice. I took her out to nice places. I bought her things she wanted. I even got in trouble for her for sneaking out. I did so much for her. And I always treated her like a gentleman because her friends and mine would comment on me and call me Mr. Chivalrous or sometimes they would call me a Knight of the Round Table. If I did my best, where did I screw up? Why did this happen to me again? Is it me? Am I a loser who gets taken for granted? Please tell me what's wrong with me.

Answers

i dont think there is anything wrong with you. i just think that she loved you in the beginning but after a while she got tired of the relationship. i think if she dumped and got back together wth you , or even the first dump, was because she was just looking for a relationship, not really into who she was in the relationship with. i think the best thing to do is to just move on. though its hard, shes only hurting you. if you really love her though, you should really do something darastic to attract her to you again. light up your spark man, or youll lose her.

#1

I don't think your a loser at all. It's hard to find a gentleman these days. I do think however she is taking you for granted BIG TIME! and you don't deserve that. I know now it seems hard to even look for another girl because of you liking her, but once you find the right girl you will know you made the right choice.

Good luck :)

#2

Dude it's not you. From what it sounds, you two just don't seem to be meant together. As much as you don't want to hear it, you need to move one and hope and pray that the one girl that you're meant to be with will eventually step into your life. Keep your chin up, mate! And don't give up hope! There's always a light at the end of the tunnel!

#3

you did nothing wrong. I know, love stinks, and she is only gonna hurt you more. delete (and block her phone number) and try to erase all the memories you can. I know that's not what you want to hear, and I'm deeply sorry for you, but it's what's best for your health.

#4

it's called she is a stupid b*tch and doesn't deserve a second more of your time. Find someone who will appreciate you for who you are. Never assume something is wrong with you. There is definitely something wrong with her though.

#5

No you did everything right my thaughts are she is/was using you she had no real intentions for a REAL relationship.

#6

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#7

thank her, she was cruel and treated you as a doormat...now get over her....learn to love yourself and search for someone who will love you because they can, not because they are bored & can play with your emotions...you deserve better, know that...

#8