Question

I am so god damn in love with my best friend!?

She told me she loved me last summer, but i had a girlfriend at that time. Then we both moved to separate countries. We will be back in the same country a year later from now.

I JUST realized that I'm in love with her. and I confessed my love by email. I didn't ask her to be my girlfriend but I told her how I feel. She just said that I am also extremely important to her. I could tell her feelings for me were back to just best friend. But we have been talking more since i confessed my love.

But how do i get romantic or sweet talk into the mix without being obvious or too pushy?! we are just exchanging mails, but i want her to feel my affection without scaring her away

How can I make her love me?! I'm so damn in love with her!

Answers

From what you've said, it sounds like she already does love you so in my opinion, you have 2 choices.

1. To have a long distance relationship

2. To keep in contact until you two are in the same country again although a year is rather long

And in regard to your 'how do I get romantic or sweet talk into the mix without being obvious or too pushy', you already said that you confessed your love and told her how you feel, so what's the problem? I'd say go for it because you never know, this could be forever.

Good luck.

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