Question

She never lets me hold her...?

My girlfriend never lets me hold her, she doesn't like to be held, but i'm her girlfriend and it makes me sad that she wont let me just wrap my arms around her it always has to be the other way around. I mean don't get me wrong I love it when she holds me but I just don't find it fair how i cant sit HER on MY lap. Idk.... do you think anything of this?

have you gone through the same thing?

should I be worried?

just please help me understand this =

thanks everyone

Answers

It's just the way she is. Like, I despise hugs. In my head, when someone hugs me, all I can think is "oh no oh no uggggggggg when will this be OVER?"

it's how she feels comfortable. She might warm up someday, or she may always cringe and clam up when you try holding her.

Is she butch? Cause I know most butches are phobic about people touching them, sexually or just in general.

It doesn't mean she doesn't love/like you. She can love you with all her heart and not feel comfortable with being held like that. It's just the way she is.

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She might be self conscious about letting you do things to her.

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